The beloved relationship coach, teacher, and host of the top relationship podcast Jillian on Love reveals nine core truths about love and self-acceptance and provides powerful self-healing techniques and strategies to help us repair our relationship with ourselves and start building the rewarding relationships we deserve.<\/p>\n
Jillian Turecki\u2019s holistic, compassionate, yet no-nonsense approach to love has attracted a devoted following of millions. In her highly anticipated debut book, she makes clear that if you want a meaningful relationship filled with connection, security, and intimacy, you have to look within. The common denominator in all your relationships is you.<\/p>\n
Drawing from decades of experience helping clients heal themselves and their relationships, It Begins with You introduces the 9 core truths we must accept in order to change our lives:<\/p>\n
Truth 1: It begins with you.
\nTruth 2: The mind is a battlefield.
\nTruth 3: Lust is not the same thing as love.
\nTruth 4: You have to love yourself.
\nTruth 5: You must speak up and tell the truth.
\nTruth 6: You need to be your best self (even after the honeymoon).
\nTruth 7: You cannot convince someone to love you.
\nTruth 8: No one is coming to save you.
\nTruth 9: You must make peace with your parents.<\/p>\n
Blending therapeutic strategies, somatic techniques, client case studies, practical tools, tips, and guiding questions, It Begins with You gives us a roadmap to finally start doing the work needed to love ourselves and find the love we deserve. It’s never too late to choose yourself.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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