Forget settling or \u201csettling down\u201d\u2014you deserve a love that upgrades every aspect of your life. A love that empowers you to get hotter, happier, and more fulfilled . . . together.<\/p>\n
The host of the podcast New Mindset, Who Dis? helps you find a partnership that fills your life with \u201ccan you believe we did that?\u201d moments, where \u201clet\u2019s book a flight and go\u201d is as common as \u201cI love you.\u201d<\/p>\n
Are you looking for a love that offers you clarity, not confusion? Does it feel like love has gotten too complicated? Does the sea of dating rules and expectations make you feel overwhelmed?<\/p>\n
Case Kenny, host of the New Mindset, Who Dis? podcast and author of That\u2019s Bold of You, brings you The Opposite of Settling\u2014a blend of practical mindfulness, evidence-based research, and undiluted optimism\u2014to help you find a love that expands your world. Case guides you toward finding and building a relationship that empowers you to be independent, vibrant, and in love. The book offers you the tools<\/p>\n
Navigate the complexities of modern dating with confidence and an unbothered mindset Find a connection that feels like home yet pushes you toward a fuller and more vibrant lifeRecognize and attract relationships that elevate your life instead of weighing or \u201csettling\u201d you downLet go of fear-based dating habits and find a love that enhances your sense of independence
\nThe Opposite of Settling isn\u2019t just about finding someone; it’s about finding more of yourself in the process. Case\u2019s concept of \u201csettling up\u201d (the opposite of \u201csettling down\u201d) offers an energizing affirmation of love, leaving you feeling lighter, unburdened of rules and expectations, and on the path to finding a relationship where you both look at each other and think, “Yup, that’s my kind of weird.\u201d<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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